A Deep Dive into Bari Tessler's "The Art of Money"

 

Bari Tessler's seminal work, "The Art of Money," has been a transformative guide in my journey to understanding finances from a somatic perspective. The book eloquently unravels concepts of Money Healing, Money Practices, and Money Maps, shedding light on the intricate relationship between our personal heritage, emotions, and money.

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Money and Emotions: A Cultural Perspective

One of the standout features of Tessler's early chapters is her ability to normalize our collective money shame. With immense sensitivity, she highlights how our beliefs and emotions around money often stem from our cultural and personal histories. The societal nuances associated with money – whether it's the lack of clarity, "I'm unsure about my earnings or expenditure," or the challenge of intimacy with one's financial self-awareness – resonate deeply with many of us. Many grapple with understanding their relationship with money, often vacillating between recognizing their strengths and acknowledging their challenges.

Decoding the Language of Money

To many, the language of finance can be as perplexing as the jabberwocky – intimidating, mystifying, and, quite frankly, tedious. It doesn't help that a significant number of us never had formal financial education. Yet, with understanding comes peace. Recognizing the root of our financial anxieties is a monumental step towards achieving clarity and, subsequently, serenity.

Redefining Success and Value

Interestingly, Tessler consciously refrains from using words like 'success' and 'achievement' in her narrative. And rightfully so, for these terms are subjective and malleable. She encourages readers to redefine these words on their terms, shifting away from potentially harmful societal definitions that might not resonate with our genuine desires. Central to this discussion is the concept of value, particularly personal value and self-worth. The term 'worth' in itself is multifaceted, often interwoven with our perceptions of money.

A Glimmer of Hope and the Power of Support

Embarking on a journey with "The Art of Money" is like walking through a dark tunnel with a gentle guiding light. Many delve into financial self-awareness from a place of despair, and Tessler's voice provides the much-needed hope and encouragement. Furthermore, she dispels the myth that our financial troubles are burdens we must bear alone. By embracing support, whether from a community, friend, or professional, we can heal and empower ourselves.

Jennifer Degen
August 24, 2023

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